Hi Morgan – bedwetting can be very stressful for the whole family, not just the person who wets at night. If not handled correctly bedwetting can make teenagers feel helpless so it is important that we provide your sister with as much support as possible. The way brothers or sisters react to their sibling wetting the bed plays an important role in their self-esteem, so with the right attitude and support you can help her through this tricky time. The fact that you have taken the time to write to me suggests that you are incredibly caring and supportive – all the right ingredients for helping your sister. Continue to show her how much you care and reassure her that none of this is her fault and that with time she will become dry. If she has not done so already I would recommend that your parents organize for her to meet with a continence specialist to discuss different treatment options. Conditioning alarms tends to experience the best outcomes but will require commitment from the whole family in order to work. I wish you all the very best and know there are many children out there who could do with a sister like you!

Regards,
Dr Cathrine

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