Dear Sim, It is not unusual for children to waiver between periods of dryness and return to wetting as they move toward achieving permanent nighttime continence. While stress can certainly trigger a return to wet beds there are also other contributing factors that you should consider. Bedwetting can occasionally be an indicator of health-related issues such as tapeworms (a simple worm treatment can rectify this) or a urinary tract infection so it is always wise to have your child checked by the GP first just to rule these out. Young children may wet the bed if they become particularly over-tired – shifting their bedtime forward even ½ hour can make all the difference. If you are at all concerned about your daughter experiencing signs of stress or anxiety then it is important that you reassure her of your love and support making sure she understands that she is no way responsible – this is important as young children often believe they are somehow accountable for whatever goes wrong.

Regards,
Dr Cathrine

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