While it is true that some children are able to outgrow bedwetting on their own, others do benefit from some form of treatment. When the bedwetting begins to interfere with children’s lives or impacts negatively on their self-esteem it is certainly time to start thinking about ways to help it stop. Sleepovers are one of the biggest concerns for children who wet the bed – this has a lot to do with being discovered by their friends. It is important that she doesn’t let the fact that she wets the bed restrict her activities, as this will only make her feel worse in the long run. While I understand her reluctance to wear DryNites, it may be helpful to share with her the many stories of children (much older than herself) going on sleepovers and wearing DryNites under their pyjamas, without anyone being the wiser. Conditioning alarms experience the best outcomes when it comes to the treatment of children’s bedwetting, with approximately 75% of children achieving nighttime continence after their use. Treatment can take up to 6 months, with some children experiencing one or two relapses. If this occurs simply re-introduce the alarm and continue with treatment. During these early stages it is important to supervise and facilitate her waking, and toileting, being sure to celebrate her successes and commitment to the program. Make sure she maintains normal eating and drinking patterns and does not become overtired, as this will make it more difficult for her to wake in response to the alarm. Most instances where conditioning alarms have failed are due to incorrect use or insufficient support – so it is essential that you receive proper guidance from a continence nurse advisor or other professional so do not try to go it alone. All the best!

Regards,
Dr Cathrine

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