She often has accidents during the day & wets every night. She has soiled herself 3 x over the last week alone. She has now started school and has all she needs in her bags to clean up if needed. But at home doesn't seem to bother. Is happy to have wet pants & denies an issue even when confronted with the evidence i.e. wet pants / car seat etc. My 3 yo daughter has been clean & dry (day & night) for 2 months now. we have been seeing a doctor at a chidlrens' hospital but haven't really had any luck. We are thinking it's time for a psychologist. I have just ordered some dry nites to see if giving us all a break from the stripping of bedding / washing cycle can help us. Any suggestions? Thanks, Lauren
Hi Lauren, firstly, apologies for the delay in responding to you. This is an incredibly frustrating situation for you all, and calls for LOTS of patience and understanding. The first and most important thing to do is rule out any underlying physical cause, which you’ve done. I certainly agree that your next step is to meet with a clinical psychologist, preferably someone who has experience working with children’s incontinence issues. You can contact the Australian Psychological Society who has a register of psychologist with relevant specialties (http://www.psychology.org.au or 1800 333 497). DryNites are a great way to manage bedwetting as they reduce the stress associated with waking up wet as well as helping manage the constant demands of wet sheets, a challenge for any parent! We really want to try and shift the focus away from her wetting, if only for a while. Use this time to enjoy your daughter and focus on all the wonderful things she does. It sounds like you’ve done a great job coping with the situation up to this point, but it is also important that you look after yourself which means drawing on the support of others wherever possible.
Regards,
Dr Cathrine
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